Unusual Signs The Relationship Is Over For Her

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Written By Alexis

Alexis has 7 years of experience as a relationship therapist, a degree in psychology, and a deep personal understanding of human relationships.

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Signs The Relationship Is Over For Her

In a relationship, everything isn’t always rosy. But in the first months of a relationship, it’s quite the contrary.

Often, you have to sit down as a couple and adjust the hands of the clock. If your relationship is all that is normal, but you sense that there is something wrong with your beloved attitude, you will want to know what is really behind these actions.

Often, most men get shocked when their partner tells them they want to break up out of the blues. Over time, they have ignored the warning signs the relationship is over for her for quite some time.

Now, before it gets there, the woman always leaves signs. Unfortunately, very few pay attention to them, either because they seem to be ignorant of some visible signs or because they don’t just observe.

In any case, it is essential to know the warning signs of a breakup, avoid the element of surprise, and save what can still be.

Here are some signs the relationship is over for her

1. She isolates herself from you

When your partner is no longer satisfied with your relationship and plans to break up, you will notice it by not spending much time with you.

If you both ain’t living together, you will find that she will talk less about visiting. And for the few times she honors your invitation, she only has one desire, which is to get back to her abode as soon as possible or at least no longer be in your presence.

If you are already living together, she will come home late more often, and the few times she comes back a little early, it will probably be with work to do at home or with supposed fatigue and a need for rest. All excuses are right to avoid you.

Plans with her friends, family, and colleagues are repeated more and more. She, who formerly can’t spend a weekend without you, suddenly finds herself busy.

This is a visible sign that the relationship is getting over for her.

2. She ignores you in public

You will notice that your partner, who is usually very tactile in public, becomes reluctant to touch. And even when you try to initiate contact, she shifts delicately.

As a rule, women like to appear clearly in public with their partners. A kiss here, a nudge in love there; they never miss an opportunity to get you noticed in public. In the eyes of your friends and even strangers, you are the perfect couple.

But when her head is elsewhere, at the slightest similar attempt on your part, you irritate her. Even with your friends, she avoids kissing you.

This sign that the relationship is over for her is the expression of an emotional distance, often heralding a probable breakup.

3. You are no longer her priority

She doesn’t answer your text messages as quickly or not at all, and when you call her, you only get her voicemail.

Surprisingly, she lost her habit of starting her day with a hello quote and ended her day with beautiful, loving quotes and goodnight messages. At times, she might act as if you don’t even exist anymore. It’s like you’re dating a stranger.

You have two possible scenarios.

Either you did something that pissed her off or she’s getting ready to break up with you. In some cases, these signs can be linked to cases of infidelity.

4. She is always looking for a dispute

When your partner starts getting worn out of you, you will notice that she never misses an opportunity to create an argument.

Either she will find you extremely jealous of something reasonably trivial, or she will get annoyed by an attitude she found adorable in you a few months ago.

She is always trying to accuse you, blame all the wrongs on you, and make you feel guilty.

For her, any subject is suitable for yelling at each other. For a yes or a no, the lady becomes inflamed and becomes very irritable.

Simply because you forgot your cup of tea on the dining table or forgot to close the toilet seat, she suddenly finds you irresponsible and incompatible.

5. She is no longer tactile

Usually, she checks in on you regularly during the day through SMS and calls. But when she’s getting over the relationship, she doesn’t care what you do with your day. She hardly initiates conversation and only speaks to you about essential things.

Women are naturally very tactile. In the past, she may have liked to pull your hair, stroke your beard, or tenderly pinch you. But now she avoids all contact with you.

And even when you try to touch her, she pushes you away, avoids you, or jumps up. Also, she no longer feels comfortable that you have physical contact with her body.

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6. She doesn’t want to be intimate anymore

While it is true that you didn’t have rabbit sexuality, your intimate moments will become even rare when your partner is nursing the thought of leaving you.

If you usually spend a good part of your weekends under the duvet exploring the limits of your bodies, this ritual will give way to the classic excuses like “not tonight”, ”I have a headache,” and I’m tired.”

When those phrases are being said on repeat, gentleman, know that she is no longer feeling your vibe.

Unlike men, women (often) need a touch of love and affection to engage in intimacy. And when she pushes you away every time, it’s probably because the feelings are dead for her.

Your strengths as a perfect lover no longer affect her. And even if she lets you have your way, you will find that her involvement will be minimal and obsolete.

7. She’s secretive and acts guilty

How often did she tell you everything that happened in her daily life? That’s not the case anymore. She’s building a new life for herself outside of your relationship.

In the past, when she received a late phone call or text, she would spontaneously tell you who it was. When she had to go out, you usually knew where she was going, with whom, and for what.

When these good habits, which used to be reflexes, become scarce or perceived as chores, there is a good chance it’s an expression of a desire to give up on everything.

A famous phrase that illustrates this disengagement: ”I am not accountable to you”. Here we are!

As a rule, women love surprises and gifts. But when your partner becomes reluctant to accept your freebies and surprise packages, she is no longer comfortable with her conscience.

She blames herself for something and sees herself more in the posture of a friend or acquaintance than a partner.


If you begin to feel or see any of these signs, there is always something you can do. Try a change or two to turn things around and save your relationship.

Talking, trying to see things from each other’s perspectives and visiting a therapist are ways to try to fix the crack.

But when several of these signs that the relationship is over for her accumulate and talking doesn’t help, her mind is probably made up. It’s time to find courage and move on.

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