How To Make Him Beg For Your Attention

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Written By Alexis

Alexis has 7 years of experience as a relationship therapist, a degree in psychology, and a deep personal understanding of human relationships.

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It sounds cool to take a deep breath after the rigor of finding a loving partner who loves you so much.

But it is more pertinent to rightly know that getting a lover isn’t as hard as keeping a loved one. It isn’t about love alone in what makes a successful relationship. Both parties needed lots of sacrifices to morph through the journey of love and build a home that will last.

As a feminine gender, you need to draw your man closely to love you the way you want and make him beg for your attention.

If you fail on some little gestures you need to accord your man, your relationship adventure won’t be patched as expected.

Okay, what are those salient things you need to be doing as a partner in love to make your boyfriend or husband beg more and more for your attention?

What are the dos and don’ts to keep a serious guy to love you more and more and beg for your attention more?

How To Make Him Beg For Your Attention

1. Respect him

We can’t be oblivious that it is gradually turning to a liberalized world globally where equality of gender is preached.

However, the core priority to making a man still want you now and then and finding it difficult not to do without you remains to respect him as a man.

Respect is a broad line under which other decisions thrive. It isn’t about obliging him sheepishly without having a mind of your own to think and make a personal decision yourself.

Still, in essence, men want to feel well-revered when dealing with you, as it is natural for humans to crave in every sphere of life.

One of the causes of many relationships is a lack of respect for one’s partner. Don’t disrespect him because you’ve known his weakness after years of being together.

The respect you had at the start of the relationship should be well maintained and even more maximized. You choose to be a couple, and nothing is meant to be left hidden, but still, his privacy has to be well respected. Let him do things the way he chooses and allow him with his thought.

Additionally, respect his distractive moment, that period he places himself on “DO NOT DSITURB,” maybe he is a critical thinker that needs time to be alone to meditate.

Except it is reasonably necessary for you to have his attention at that moment.

2. Be his biggest fan

Yes, as much as you have to respect his privacy and not always connect around him, you’re still highly expected to make a balance and be his first supporter, cheerer, motivator, and counselor.

Do a background check of the possible solutions to his current challenging period. Maybe his desire for ambition. Try and bring clues, if not a solution outrightly, that will proffer a solution.

A serious man will cherish you till eternity for such support. Support him in any way that you deem fit and let him feel the priority and how highly you placed him. The support still goes down to cheering him in times of life turbulence and advising him when necessary.

Learning about his interests, hobbies and attitude, among others, is a verifiable way to let your man love you unconditionally. He can’t just help but keep begging for more.

3. Be seductive

To have your partner at your toe, you need to be overwhelmingly looking sweet for his perfect taste.

Men are moved by what they see, so learn the degree of the sexual preference of your loving man quickly. Learn what turns him on sexually and the same as what turns him off. Look attractive from basic things like dressing seductively and neat during sexual affairs.

For a relationship that doesn’t have an issue with premarital sex, be a whore but only for your loving man. Read books and learn online on how to make a balance between your sexual prowess.

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4. Be independent

As men feel confident if you seek their help most times, it is still imperative for a lady to learn how to do some basics without her man’s help.

It makes a man see you as a superhero and treat you as such. Call for help when necessary, but don’t leave an impression you can’t do without his help.

This won’t only make him respect you, but surely, you will be his everyday hype even among his peers for doing what is considered unusual among some females.

5. Intelligence discussion

For a man to be constantly thirsty for your attention and can’t resist seeing you, if he is an outspoken person, learn to have a long-term conversation with him and not an ordinary discussion premised on fashion and love.

Discuss super exciting topics and argue your point based on solid facts when having such a conversation.

Always be respectful but sound confident about the controversial topic and argue convincingly.

Everyone takes pride in associating with a brilliant person, which can be achieved by the craving to learn more every day.

Additionally, always strive to be creative and do things differently in a mouth-watering way.

6. Have a career focus life and be ambitious

A colossal ambition will definitively trigger you to be resilient in pursuing it, have a career path, and be more ambitious.

An aspiration that will make you so occupied that you won’t be too idle to be around him all day.

Let him have reason to miss you; don’t be all-time be available.

If you have given him an interesting impression in the past, your absence will surely make him beg for your attention whenever he misses you.

7. Have a bond with his relative

For a man who holds his family and friends in high esteem, he will love you more and beg for your attention to have you over if you love his relatives and hold them in high regard.

Traditionally, a relative can be a mediator to trivial issues within loving partners.

Treat them well to be objective by giving your support when making a case for the settlement of animosity between you and your partner.

Moreover, be cautious when involved in a trivial issue when your man and his relative are keeping malice. Always seek a middle ground; don’t be too pushed to be one-sided.

8. Always show genuine appreciation

Appreciation for every little act from him should count. Be always appreciative whenever he surprises you or makes what seems like rocket science possible for you to achieve.

This is one element of respect discussed above. Always be his hype woman and you don’t need to shout at him when you’re trying to table your displeasure towards him.

You can be uncontrollably furious, but it is in your interest to cool your nerves when addressing your man.


Every man acts majorly based on the weight of affection and care they gathered from their partners.

A man might not intend to have a long-term relationship with you. Still, your complete portrayal of readiness by showcasing the above-discussed salient factors to make him beg for your attention will most likely make him rethink about having you as his woman.

Summarily, the best way to have a man’s attention is to give him the best of your attention.

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