How To Make Your Ex Want You Back So Badly.

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Written By Alexis

Alexis has 7 years of experience as a relationship therapist, a degree in psychology, and a deep personal understanding of human relationships.

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Breakups can drain your strength, both physical and emotional.

Many people cling to the memories of their past love life. Which keeps tormenting them and leads them to the decision to crave their ex back so badly.

When trying to make your ex want you back, you have to ask yourself. ”Do you still have a chance of getting back together with your ex?” Now, take this quiz to find out.

I have had my share of breakups in the past, and sometimes it feels like being apart is the best decision for both of us. With such thought, I get to move on quicker than expected.

Sometimes, I have this driving force that keeps pitching my sense of reasoning, which makes me crave my ex more, with the burning desire to get my ex back. I have had success in achieving my heart’s desire to get back with my ex.

Now, I want you to achieve success as I did with the same technique in getting your ex back without losing yourself in the process.

Making your ex want you back so badly is a hard nut to crack. The main job is to try and get their attention to your side.

You don’t want to blow this up or try to send the wrong message to your ex, which can make them detest you. I know you have such a desire in you. A lot of people have a series of reasons why they want their ex back so badly.

I got a mail from my buddy Michael, who just broke up with his girlfriend. Michael keeps on muttering words to me that I can’t understand. But all I noticed was that he was obsessed with his ex and couldn’t do without her.

I mean, she was his high school sweetheart some years ago. He just can’t let go of the burning desire and flashbacks of their love life. Michael’s words are, ”I want her back so badly, and it looks like she has already moved on; why so sudden? Does it mean she never loved me?”

Michael has this mindset that the breakup was not in his favor. He is willing to do anything to make her desire him and rekindle their love life back again.

If you are like my buddy Mike, I understand your plight, and you are not alone on this.

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Now, watch out for how to make your ex want you back so badly.

1. Try and focus on why they left

Every breakup has a reason why it happened. The breakup happens because you both have lost faith in each other and then made a decision to part ways. Before fixing a problem, you need to find out what went wrong before the breakup. Why did he or she want out?

You may not get the exact reason why the breakup happens. But try to be a good version of yourself and make amends. As you keep your hopes high, you need to clear your cupboard of any cobwebs that resort to the breakup to avoid future reoccurrence.

2. Don’t be desperate

Now, I know your instinct may be on the fast lane to dish out countless apologies. Or attract sympathy for yourself by begging your ex. Which you think may increase your chances of reuniting with your ex. But don’t do it

Being desperate does not show a good version of yourself. Your ex can capitalize on your weak moments, which won’t be in your favor. Getting back with your ex may take a long time, but don’t appear desperate while on the verge of getting back.

3. Don’t chase them

Now, these tactic works like magic. After a breakup, your ex has the mindset of being pursued by you, either through excessive phone calls or messages. As much as you want to do this, don’t.

Your ex wants to be chased or stalked after a breakup. But when you do the opposite, they feel disappointed and wonder what went wrong.

Try and be relaxed and don’t act too clingy this time. Distance yourself for a while and engage yourself in outdoor activities.

When you do this for sometimes, your ex will miss your presence in their life and will love to reconnect with you.

4. Do something different and always appear busy

People tend to have this misconception about a breakup. We feel the other person is always grieving over the breakup, but never allow your ex to think that.

Make them feel you have your whole life in check, go out with friends, and have fun. Pick a new hobby, hit the gym, and get that sexy body you always wanted.

Do things differently, things you never engaged in when you were still dating your ex.

Make yourself more admirable, and trust me, all these work in turning your ex’s attention clockwise toward you. Which always feels enticing to them.

5. Be productive

It’s time to let go of the past; all the shenanigans that took place in your past relationship are in the past now. Don’t sit around keeping tabs on your phone to know when your ex will call.

That may not happen for now.

Travel to another state if you have to and make yourself less available. Don’t always be at their beck and call.

It’s time to move on. Get engaged 100% with a new business. Your job, get that degree you always wanted. Have more interest in other companies you have been admiring for a long time, and be productive.

People tend to admire productivity, which isn’t a bad thing; the same applies to your ex.

When they don’t have a close connection with you anymore, they tend to draw closer to have a feel of your productivity.

Being productive should not be used as a revenge mechanism on your ex; instead, it’s a tool that keeps them on a tight leash. Have a clear mindset about the future and strive to be more productive for future endeavors.

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