3. <\/strong>Battling so many emotional and physical pains<\/h3>\n\n\n\nPsychology experts say the loss of someone you love can be a great source of unhappiness, which, when it stretches, can lead to emotional and physical pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If after a heartbreak, you get emotionally down, and your heavy heart is laden, especially when coupled with physical pains. You feel helpless and stay in a position for hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do you feel so numb and don’t want to get out of bed for no reason? Do you take those sudden long breaks at work to spend time crying? These are doubts you haven’t gotten over him\/her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How to get over someone you love so much<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Don’t live in self-denial. I will be sharing strategies to get over someone you love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Let the tears flow<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Don’t withhold the tears at any point in time. Do you feel like crying? Does your chest still hurt so much from letting someone you love to go?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Take some time off from work if you can to steam off the heat. But don’t make it a habit though.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Come to the realization that nothing can be done<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
You don’t want to hang around someone you once loved while you are still nursing your wounds. There are tendencies they have probably moved on already.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don’t get stuck in life wishing they will come knocking again; even if they do, you need to ask yourself candid questions. Why did they leave? Why you left them and why they are back. Is it out of pity? Or they are back to hurt you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You need to accept the reality that the relationship is over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Learn to let it go and forgive yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Forgiveness isn’t something to be forced, imposed, or something you probably say three times to your wish balloons when you were younger. I forgive you, I forgive you, I forgive. No, it isn’t a wish. It is something that takes a conscious effort on your part.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you are sure you want to get over someone and you are ready to forgive, please do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most importantly, forgive yourself and stop every thought of self-doubt that you are currently feeling. It probably wasn’t because you weren’t good enough. Stop the self-blames too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Very importantly, take notes of things that made the relationship hit the rock. So you can work on them or avoid them before a new one. Learn from your past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Stop all forms of communication<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Truth is. I know how difficult it could be to impose the no contact rule with someone you once cherished and hold so dear. Who you always being in contact with 24 hours a day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00a0You need to come to the reality you are no longer with them. And can’t afford to be in constant communication like you used to when in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You also need to unfollow them on social networks if you have to since you are still in pain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You need to stop all communication forms until you are sure you won’t be running to make those inappropriate calls and texts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you still have to stay in communication, probably on business-related issues and other important agendas. Be yourself, and don’t act too desperate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Understand that there is still someone out there for you<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Understanding that there is still someone out there for you doesn’t translate to jumping into another relationship right away. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Give yourself time to heal from past hurt and pains that might act as baggage when you go right into another relationship. I am sure you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings in the process of healing yourself. That won’t be good, you know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Conclusion<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Understand that this is a phase and won’t last forever, and who knows, it might be time for a great self-recovery. A time to go on a trip you had so much interest in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prepare that meal you always wanted to from that old cookery book or fun part. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hang out with the guys and girlfriends. One thing is for sure! You are not alone, and with conscious positive effort, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I wish hope and light your way. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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